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> Are we on the air?
By Linda Buchanan Wagner ’79
> A generation in search
by Nancy Obrien ’94
> For you, A.J.
by Ed Ziegler ’72
> Whit one day, world the next
by Marie Ranoia Alonso ’90
> My brother’s keepers
by Jim Koscs ’85
> Can you say, “College is super-dee-dupor?”
by Moira Jablon-Bernstein ’92
> Project Santa from a
New Perspective
by Lisa Shea Linden ’86
> The train to college
by Dorothy Ciryak Clark
Leonard ’76, ’84
> Debating the future
by Ron Weisberger ’65
> A deeply-rooted relationship
by Harriet Clevenger Lockwood ’88
> Curtain or copy: a major decision
by Susan Goodman Magod
> The bear necessities of friendship
by Qraig R. de Groot ’93
> Special delivery
by Darlene Beck-Jacobson ’74
> A room of my own
by Melissa F. Sherman ’86
> The diploma
by Ros Psolka ’90
> Remembering Sabrina
by Ros Psolka ’90
> Who wants my 33s?
By Jim Koscs ’85
> Looking for a sign
By Wendy Weber Crawford ’75, ’79, ’88
> An ode to 27A South Main Street
By Keith Forrest ’88
> Our flag in the window
By Lori Marshall ’92
> Mail, mortality and American mettle
By Brian Kass’85
> Christmas trees in the Kremlin
By Don Dunnington’97
> Aimless and malcontent
no more

By Tim Zatzariny, Jr. ’94
> Bringing the family
By Susan Parker ’74
> A little too soon for golden oldies
By Keith Forrest ’88
> Tale of a tile man
By Sabatino Mangini ’01
> Remembering Reagan
By David Coyle ’81
> Time well spent
By Leigh Koebert ’97
> Still a college kid...
By Gregg Clayton ’81
> What’s at the end of your “If only…”?
By Carol Servino ’75
> Catching the moment
and the meaning

By Casey Christy ’92, M’03
> Starting at Glassboro,
finishing at Rowan

By Lori Samlin Miller ’77
> Room to grow
By Casey Christy ’92, M’03
> Lifelong friends in spite of themselves
By Patricia Quigley ’78, M’03

Mail, mortality and American mettle
by Brian Kass ’85

n the early ’80s when I was attending Glassboro State, the break-up of AT&T was in full swing. Everyone was complaining how the situation was screwing up phone service. One of my communications professors, Mike Donovan, said the real surprise is that the phone works at all! You pick up the phone, punch some buttons, and it causes another phone to ring hundreds or thousands of miles away. Then you talk to someone as if they were sitting across the room from you. It’s easy to forget how miraculous the process really is.

   It’s the same with mail service. Throw a stamp on an envelope, and for the cost of your pocket change, the contents of that envelope travel to all parts of the globe. That’s just one of the six hundred million pieces of mail the United States Postal Service delivers daily. I’ve become very familiar with the process because, since taking a break from teaching, I’ve served as a letter carrier.

   Unfortunately, someone (or some group) feels this reliable service is a good way to kill people and frighten anyone who dares send a letter or receive a package. Suddenly, we’re on the front lines of a terrorist conflict. Everyone faces his or her own mortality at some point, but despite the relatively slim odds of getting anthrax through the mail, many people are considering the end of life en masse. As another of my professors, James Haba, would say, that’s a really scary place to be. His literature classes were equal parts text study and philosophy, including the nature of life and death in many cultures. It spurred me to reflect about how I would choose to live my life in the face of a terminal situation. That’s not something many 19-year-olds do, but my GSC experience helped me form opinions that have stood me in good stead two decades later.

   I don’t believe that life and death are pre-determined; that your number “comes up” like those slips of paper at the supermarket deli counter and—BANG!—you’re done. Of course, I will die someday. Yet deep inside is a determination to live life fully and completely with as little regret as possible. If you live 110 years in fear, that’s 110 years wasted. My time on this earth is too precious to spend waiting for the next catastrophe or tragic accident to befall me. At that point I’m essentially a dead man walking. Besides, you’re counting on me to get your mail to you…a formerly simple process you once took for granted.

   OK, delivering mail during the war on terrorism isn’t especially courageous compared to firefighters and cops who rushed into the World Trade Center or soldiers in Afghanistan, but keeping the mail moving is an important component in America’s economic and emotional recovery. Working at your job, raising your kids and buying stuff at the store all have their place in the complex web which our country’s prosperity and well-being rest upon, too.

   So do me a favor. If your work brings you through Chatham and we see each other, throw me a wave or even a smile and I’ll gladly do the same back. Then together, we move on, one day at a time. It’s the toughest times that reveal a person’s true character. Let’s see what we’re made of.

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Brian Kass ‘85 has been a letter carrier for three years. He lives in Springfield and loves receiving mail, especially from friends. Write to him care of the Chatham Post Office, Chatham, NJ 07928.

 
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