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Are
we on the air?
By Linda Buchanan Wagner 79 |
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A
generation in search
by Nancy Obrien 94 |
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For
you, A.J.
by Ed Ziegler 72 |
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Whit
one day, world the next
by Marie Ranoia Alonso 90 |
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My
brothers keepers
by Jim Koscs 85 |
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Can
you say, College is super-dee-dupor?
by Moira Jablon-Bernstein 92 |
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Project
Santa from a
New
Perspective
by Lisa Shea Linden 86 |
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The
train to college
by Dorothy Ciryak Clark
Leonard 76, 84 |
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Debating
the future
by Ron Weisberger 65 |
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A
deeply-rooted relationship
by Harriet Clevenger Lockwood 88 |
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Curtain
or copy: a major decision
by Susan Goodman Magod |
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The
bear necessities of friendship
by Qraig R. de Groot 93 |
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Special
delivery
by Darlene Beck-Jacobson 74 |
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A
room of my own
by Melissa F. Sherman 86 |
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The
diploma
by Ros Psolka 90 |
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Remembering
Sabrina
by Ros Psolka 90 |
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Who
wants my 33s?
By Jim Koscs 85 |
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Looking
for a sign
By Wendy Weber Crawford 75, 79, 88 |
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An
ode to 27A South Main Street
By Keith Forrest 88 |
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Our
flag in the window
By Lori Marshall 92 |
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Mail,
mortality and American mettle
By Brian Kass85 |
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Christmas
trees in the Kremlin
By Don Dunnington97 |
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Aimless
and malcontent
no more
By Tim Zatzariny, Jr. 94 |
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Bringing the family
By Susan Parker ’74 |
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A little too soon for golden oldies
By Keith Forrest 88 |
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Tale of a tile man
By Sabatino Mangini 01 |
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Remembering
Reagan
By David Coyle 81 |
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Time well spent
By Leigh Koebert 97 |
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Still a college kid...
By Gregg Clayton 81 |
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What’s at the end of your “If only…”?
By Carol Servino ’75 |
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Catching the moment
and the meaning
By Casey Christy ’92, M’03 |
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Starting at Glassboro,
finishing at Rowan
By Lori Samlin Miller ’77 |
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Room to grow
By Casey Christy ’92, M’03 |
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Lifelong friends in spite of themselves
By Patricia Quigley ’78, M’03 |
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A deeply-rooted relationship
By Harriet Clevenger Lockwood 88
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1953, my second grade class attended the opening of the new Campus
School, the demonstration school in what is now known as Bozorth
Hall. That was not my first time on campusI lived three blocks
away and walked and played there often but it was probably the year
that I made a special, life-long friend. She was the beautiful,
grand Oak Tree that stood proudly as a centurion looking over Bozorth
Hall.
This spectacular tree stood by as Glassboro State Teachers
College grew, adding dorms, libraries and science buildings. The
campus was nestled among peach and apple orchards that spread from
Route 322 to Carpenter Street, and it buzzed with bees pollinating
the fruit trees. Now the campus is buzzing with traffic. Even as
a child, I was sad to watch the bulldozers uprooting the orchards.
My friend the Oak Tree escaped destruction that time. She stood
in left field on the baseball diamond, close to the railroad tracks.
At the nearby Campus School, the Oak provided acorns for our science
projects and shade for reading groups.
When I was in eighth grade, the Oak sheltered me when a gang of
girls chased me into her arms. There I was comforted when I was
sad and truly needed a friend. And in high school, I would often
walk over to campus to sit and study under the trees branches,
sometimes talking over lifes changes. I had my first, last
and only taste of beer there, and a kiss or two.
My family posed for photos in her view, like many of the student
clubs. The yearbook, The Oak, often featured groups of students
under her broad limbs, spreading across two pages. And on my sons
first birthday, June 23, 1967, the Oak was honored to stand guard
as President Lyndon Johnson arrived via helicopter on the baseball
field to meet with Premier Alexei Kosygin at Hollybush.
There were trying times, too. When my mother died in 1976, I took
my children over to play under my friend as I prayed and shed a
few tears. We gathered her acorns and leaves in those autumn days.
I felt renewed strength looking at the Oak who watched over me as
an example of steadfastness.
One day in 1985, as I walked to campus I saw a morbid sight. My
friend the Oak was in large chunks across the baseball diamondit
looked like a graveyard. The men who felled this magnificent tree
were still busy cutting up the pieces to be removed. I pointed to
her and jumped around saying, Oh no! Oh no! Thats my
friend they chopped down. I needed to find out why.
The Oak, the largest tree the tree service had ever chopped down,
was not diseased. The workmen told me that she was being removed
so they could put a fence around the ball field. A visiting team
had to be given an automatic homerun if a ball was hit into her
branches. So a spectacular tree, who was probably the teams
best fan, was unearthed.
I told the workmen that she had been my friend forever. I asked
if they could cut me a slice of the trunk so I could preserve her
as a tabletop. At first they refused, saying they couldnt
cut a thin slice without it splintering. After I told them some
more memories, I asked, If you could cut a slice of the trunk,
how thick would it have to be? They looked at each other and
said, Come on. With a two-man electric saw, they made
one clean swipe, cutting a seven-inch slice about five feet across.
The piece, it turned out, weighed more than 300 pounds, and a professor
advised me to store her flat for at least six months to help reduce
cracking and splitting as she lost her life-sustaining moisture.
With the help of friends, she was carried and placed in different
peoples garages and barns over the course of ten years. In
1995, I convinced my husband it was time to bring my friend home.
With special treatment from craftsman Brian Smith, her surface became
as smooth as silk. Pieces of bark that had dropped off during all
the moves were replaced like puzzle pieces. He counted her ringsunofficially,
the Oak Tree was 285 years old.
She now rests on an octagonal pedestal in my home and is still breathtaking.
Im thankful I was there that day they cut her down, for now
I have a reminder of my deeply-rooted relationship with the old
Oak Tree.
Inspired by her grandchildrens pleasure in hearing her story
about the Oak, Harriet plans to write a childrens book about
her old friend. 
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Harriet Clevenger Lockwood, a special education teacher, is coordinator
of educational programs and library services at the Sen. Garrett
W. Hagedorn Psychiatric Hospital in Glen Gardner. She lives in Califon
with her husband and her friend, the Oak.
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